坦荡地生，现实间活

最近，在工资已经欠发6个月以后，在存款清零，全还了房贷的那一天，我记得是今年的9。11。我开始，鼻子流血，开始失眠，开始在人为的压力面前一点点地屈身。

此时，一个活得格外潇洒的友人鼓励我说，做好自己，心怀坦荡些。

孔子说，君子坦荡荡，小人常戚戚。是形容，君子胸襟开阔、心地纯洁，因而坦坦荡荡；小人营营苟苟、患得患失，因而悲悲戚戚。又有解释说，君子光明磊落，不忧不惧，所以心胸宽广坦荡；小人患得患失，忙于算计，又每每庸人自扰，疑心他人算计自己，所以经常陷于忧惧之中，心绪不宁。据说当年林彪很是欣赏孔子这两句名言，可他确被历史写入小人的行列。

这里的君子与小人，和对错无关，与善良与否也没啥牵扯，到底是什么让我先因焦虑而发烧病倒，后因困惑而些许罗嗦，患得患失就已经算得上是小人了，活在现实 的种种困惑中的我还要求得超脱。到底什么才是坦荡，没心没肺那是暂存一阵儿的转移视线，得过且过是被动拿时光消遣，坦荡如果是为民族为国家，其实，那容易，一如我在space里一些瞎掰的文摘或言语，有哪些可以解除现实中的积难呢？

压力，会使男人原本坚强的性格变得柔化，会让一个健康的身体转成心脉梗塞，思想禁锢的空壳，生命之花就这样在高压下瞬间化为焦炭，一切对生活的渴望也在一个个现实的禁锢和枷锁前，失去了自由的生气。

在我看来，老人与海，说得更为确切和直白，人可以被杀死，但不能被打败。

不管事实上，你是否被人算计，现在看来，自己所追求的就是一个小公司里的高些的职位，好实际对管理层有更清楚的理解，也在参与创业的过程中，更生动地了解 过程中的各种滋味，现在我确实品尝到了，也体验到了，这些目的已经达到，而当初没有明哲保身地及时在3月初撤离，我想也算给自己和自己信任的朋友一个交代了。

呵呵，睡觉去！

听些实话——和自己赛跑的人

歌曲：和自己赛跑的人

歌手：李宗盛 专辑：作品李宗盛

亲爱蓝迪我的弟弟你很少赢过别人
但是这一次你超越自己
虽然在你离开学校的时候
所有的人都认为你不会有出息
你却没有因此怨天尤人自暴自弃
我知道你不在意
因为许多不切实际的鼓励
大都是来自酒肉朋友或者远房亲戚

人有时候需要一点点刺激
最常见的就是你的女友离你而去
人有时候需要一点点打击
你我都曾经不止一次的留级
在那时候我们身边都有一卡车的难题
不知道成功的意义就在超越自已
我们都是和自己赛跑的人
为了更好的未来拼命努力
争取一种意义非凡的胜利
我们都是和自己赛跑的人
为了更好的明天拼命努力
前方没有终点奋斗永不停息

歌曲下载

Bette Midler - Night And Day

Bette Midler - Night And Day

Artist: Bette Midler Album: Some People's Lives Title: Night And Day Maybe you and i see life with two different visions, And neither one of us is wrong or right. And maybe we're too serious and don't wanna listen. I just wanna make you laugh tonight. We're like day and night, night and day. We are both so different in so many ways. We're like night and day, day and night, And we go together just like black and white. Seems you're always out one door when i'm in the other. It's so hard to find some quiet time. (so hard to find the time) Wish that we could spend our lives alone with each other, And never think about the world outside. We're like day and night, night and day. We are oh, so different in so many ways. We're like night and day, day and night. Still we know it's gonna be all right. And if we never really get the picture right, How many of us ever really win the fight? I never want to loose your love, Or let the distance get the best of us, 'cause time is moving fast enough! Maybe we don't always share a common opinion. It's true that you and i don't think alike. But when i look into you eyes and all is forgiven, (all is forgiven) All i wanna do is hold you tight. We're like day and night, night and day. We are both so different in so many ways. We're like night and day, day and night. Still we know it's gonna be all right. We're like night and day, day and night. We go together just like black and white. We're like, we're like, we're like, we're like Day and night, night and day, Day and night, night and day. We're like, we're like, we're like Day and night, night and day. Like black and white.